baby dumping

Human is a beautiful creatures from god. Baby dumping is a social problem that are occurring in Malaysia society. However, we kept hearing about this social problem over and over again. The crisis seems to be never ended in Malaysia society.There are several causes that may lead to baby dumping cases that have been identified. First of all, extreme celebration of certain events. As we all knew, New Year occasion is the day where people all entire nation will gather around with their friends. By having an extremely celebration will leads to the free sex whether direct or indirectly which then resulted to baby dumping. Actually, this way on celebrating any events came from a west culture which spread out to Malaysia culture. Our people easily get involved in this matter because our people tried to be as west person. Next, sexual abuse also were the factor which contribute to increase in baby dumping in this country. Women, who dump their baby usually due to the feeling being betrayed by the father’s baby whether willing or unwillingly. The mother usually tends to dispose their child after birth. In addition, parents kept push them to dispose the baby to avoid being humiliated by others without care about their child feeling. Just imagine how bad it is that kind of parents. The women, who were sexually abuse actually were actually having an emotion and mentally depression. If not parents who are the ones that can comfort our child then who, without forcing them to do and what they do not want to do. Dispose them is not the good solution to revenge. Give a birth and give the baby to parental care to be adopting later. Here, we can see that parents play an important role to avoid this problem keeps increasing. Furthermore, broken family is the factor that may leads to this occurrence. As their child seek for love, their parents keep working until they did not realize that their child have a problem. Lack of attention from parents because of overdo their working and not supervise them closely enough leads to this problem. They think that their child are good and will not do this kind of thing. Because of not having enough love they seek love from another person until get involving in this free sex and eventually give a illegal birth. Here, we can conclude that baby dumping is a serious problem that may bring a bad images to our country. So, parents, society, school should gather up to tackle down this kind of problem. However, actually it is still based on the individual responsibilities because what are going to change if we are not changing ourselves.